Now that we're together

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched...but are felt in the heart. Love, is one of them. When you think about what it takes for two people to agree that they want to be together, it is a miracle that there is a thing called a relationship. Yes, love is the most beautiful thing, after the process of love, the word relationship comes into the picture. Which I think it's the most difficult to handle.

Many of your happiest memories will be those moments when the person oyu liked returned those feelings and you suddenly found yourself 'involved' with someone. But like everything else in life, the fantasy is usually better than the reality, and with this new experience comes many new problems. Relationships can bring great happiness but also great pain, especially when you see differences comes into the frame gradually.

I guess one of our main goals as humans is to learn how to give and receive love. A relationship takes commitment. In order to fulfill the commitment, is it enough to just promise to love the person forever and always? The kind of commitment in my context says this: 'I am willing to look at both sides of the situation. I will communicate honestly and respectfully.' It's perfectly hard to weigh the amount of commitment each has given out or rather there's no scale to judge whether it's fair or not. It is a voluntary process instead.

Differences. No matter how much both of you are in love, in deep love, sooner or later differences will overtake romance and that's the time when you need to come out with a solution. Or maybe both parties should share the same perspective, holding each other hand in hand. Pull the other one back when you see he/she is about to step out of the path. It is never a mistake to have loved. Just another form of education to yourself. Love is present everywhere, just a matter of feeling it or not.